A breakup is very traumatic and all you can think is that “I want my ex back”, this feels like the test of times, and you have mixed emotions and these include sadness, alone, disheartened, irritated, worried, at fault, drained, inert, fuming, stupid, but hold on and everything will be alright.
There are a lot of experts in relationships out there who have good advice t give. But most of them would agree that there needs to be a cool off period of let’s say average of 30 days.There is no doubt about it if you contact your ex now they will really don’t like it and think you have no life and it is quite pathetic of you. You have to know that if you come across as some desperate person they will be so happy and elated that they left you. Then again you will make things ten times worse.
People who want their exes back often resort to the following, which should seriously be avoided if you want to Win Your Ex Back:
Fabricate Stories
Try To Push Their Buttons
Try To make Them Jealous
Be mean to them
Act like a Stalker
Get into irrelevant arguments you had during your relationship
Try to get revenge
Hang out where they are and “accidentally” bump into them
It may not seem this way but often if a person has experienced a breakup which they regret, they may tend to do weird things, which they perceive as being normal.Please if you have done some of the above
mentioned things, stop now and end the foolishness. Remember if you do not get a grip now then your chances of getting your ex back may be a big round zero.
The truth is that you can only get back together with your ex by taking a small breather.Work out a plan on how you can get your ex to get back with you again. You might be wondering what you should do to get the time to pass quicker.Here are only a few examples: catch up with friends, go out have fun (being single has its perks even if it is only for 30 days), improve yourself, lose weight, shape up, get a makeover, join the gym etc If you miss your ex terribly, then focus your attention to your new activities.
But please under no circumstances should you make contact.This all may seem like a difficult task but even these 30 days will pass. Soon “ I Want My Ex Back” will be a thing of the past.
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Thursday, July 8, 2010
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