I Want My Ex Back

Do you feel the end of your relationship is in sight?In my opinion there always is a solution to a problem, so let’s get a solution for you.

So let us take an easy example which probably has happened to you in more or less the same way.You had a difficult day at work you get back to your girlfriend, want to relax and unwind. You get home and bam she erupts like a volcano full of emotion and she is furious.

So things go south, a lot of men have been in this situation, but what you do now will determine the outcome of your relationship.Before she kicks you out, there are some things you have to do if you really love her and you want a stable future with her.

She has to have a basis for her actions and trust me it’s not simply because you forgot to take out the garbage.Most men think they know how to treat the female gender, but they really don’t.Here are three critical factors you should consider.

1.Tell Her You Love Her

”I already did that when I took her to the movies and some coffee yesterday” Well, that won’t cut the deal. It simply is not that easy, women are very emotional.Material gifts and a lot of time together not being quality does not mean a thing to them. If you love them anyway then just vocalize it more often, is that too much to ask?

So do not think that she is unappreciative for the fantastic things you do for her, she may think that your emotions and love for her have changed. Men are simple beings they tend to take things at face value, whereas your girlfriend probably re evaluates her relationship on a daily basis. Thus don’t be surprised if the conversation starts with “Hey honey, we need to talk…” and things completely derail.

Basically this step is so easy all you need to do is tell her you adore and love her.If you can’t say it straight up then simply write a note and put it somewhere she can find it, or just let her know how much you appreciate her. This easy step will get you in her good books, no worries.

2.Listen To Her

Would you like it if you talked to someone about something you are very passionate about and you suddenly noticed they are totally not listening to what you are saying.How would you feel?Redundant?So this is usually what happens when a girl talks, the boyfriend is staring into space not paying attention.So there, just take some time and truly listen. Perhaps you are busy watching a game and she wants to talk then calmly explain the situation to her and tell her you will talk later. A good girlfriend will give you some space, so simply go to her if you have the time and listen to what she has to say.

3. Honesty

Everyone knows that honesty is a basic building block of any relationship. You must be able to apply this in your relationship, but be subtle. Don’t hurt her feelings when she asks you a question. Let’s just take an easy example, if she spent the whole day cooking for a romantic dinner and she asks you how the food was then don’t just tell her it was awful, rather say something like “You really outdid yourself honey I appreciate it, perhaps the steak had too much salt, but I really enjoyed it.”

Then again there may be more serious matters which she asks about such as a problem in the relationship, then you must remain composed and try and solve the matter in a peaceful way.Both partners have to be patient and keep a cool attitude; this will avoid frustration and tempers boiling.

These three steps are really easy to apply to your relationship if you feel that she is going to break up with you.Apply them and things will get better. Think about it it is so easy, tell her you love her, just pay attention, listen and be honest.If you have lost your girlfriend and you really feel like “I Want My Ex Back” then you have to read more on: Win Your Ex Back.