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Monday, April 5, 2010

How Guilt May Affect Your Personal Life

Guilt can cause you to feel of regret for your real or imagined misdeeds, both past and present. It makes your consciousness and thoughts really puzzled about you. So I'm going to narrate a little about what guilt can do to you both bad and good.

1. Guilty feeling can make you over responsible always trying to make things right. You are always prepared to do anything from your side to make everybody around you happy.

2. Makes you over responsible. You choose your action extremely carefully as to its possible negative effects to others. You may even then pay no attention to your own desires and wants.

3. You become over sensitive. You see calls about wrong and right in all sides of your life and become obsessed with the flimsy nature of all of your private actions, words and calls. You are receptive to the cues of others where any implication of your wrong doing is intimated.

4. Guilt can immobilize you, that is, fear gets over you such a lot that you fear to do anything, announcing anything or being wrong that you collapse mentally. As a consequence, you choose inertness maintaining a low standing among your pals and family.

5. Distracts you from making any call because the idea of being right overrides your wits. You always think about the question of injuring any one by your choices.

6. You are hidden by the mask of self denial. Because it is less guilt inducing to look after others first, rather than yourself, you hide behind the mask of self denial. You honestly believe it's miles better to serve others first, unaware that "guilt " is the incentive for such "generous " behavior.


7. It can make you avoid the array of emotions and feelings, which means, overcome by the guilt or fear of it, you block yourself emotionally. That way, you miss both the negative and positive aspects of life.

8. Since you feel guilty, it brings pain into your life which you can use to know how to switch your life and get shot of the guilt. So you can call it an incentive too depending on the individual you are.


9. Because many foolish principles lie behind guilt, you may be unable to fix your sentiments. It's vital to be objective with yourself when youare experiencing guilt ; be certain that your calls are based totally on sound, rational thinking.

Guilt is a particularly necessary part of our lives and it helps us to learn and discover many crucial aspects of our life. As mentioned above, it can lead us into a new life as well as mislead us into some hideous life making us apart from our beloved ones. Obviously, all the things I discussed don't suit to everyones character as because there are plenty of who doesn't realize their deeds. But those who are actually good within from their heart, who tries to change the things they shouldn't have done, they go thru those phases. I hope they succeed in conquering their guilty feeling and do some good deeds to help others and themselves!

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